FAQs

Who are Unitarian Universalists?
Unitarian Universalists (UUs) are people who believe that every person has inherent worth and dignity, and deserve to be treated with compassion, respect, and love. We come from different religious, philosophical, and spiritual backgrounds including, but not limited to, Paganism and Polytheism, Christianity, Humanist Atheism, Judaism, Buddhism, and more. Rather than requiring everyone to follow the same creed, UUs encourage the wonder to explore life’s big questions together, learn from one another, and build a more compassionate and just world.

Do I have to be religious to attend?
Not at all! Unitarian Universalism welcome people who identify as religious, pluralistic, spiritual, agnostic, atheist, humanist, or simply curious. Our community is built on shared values, meaningful relationships, and the freedom to explore your own journey.

What happens during a Sunday service?
Our Sunday services bring people together through music, reflection, readings, and meaningful messages that come from our minister, Rev. Scott Alexander. At times we will also have guest speakers present on various topics that are an extension of their specialties. Some services explore spiritual or religious themes, while others address personal growth, social and eco justice, community, or the current events of the world. You are welcome to participate as much or as little as you feel comfortable doing.

Do I have to believe in God?
No. Some believe in a higher power or Mystery. Some worship multiple deities. Others find meaning through human relationships, science, or philosophical inquiry. And some combine bits from all the above.

Is your congregation LGBTQIA2+ affirming?
Yes. We are a growing, affirming congregation. We celebrate the inherent dignity and worth of everyone regardless of relationships, sexual orientation, gender identities, and gender expressions. You do not have to hide who you are, explain yourself, or conform to someone else’s expectations to be welcomed here. We strive to create a community where everyone can feel safe, respected, valued, and at home.

Do I need to be a UU to visit?
Not at all! Come as you are. Curiosity is more than enough.

What should I wear?
Some people dress their “Sunday best,” while others prefer business casual or casual clothing. There is no expectation to look a certain way. We want you to feel at ease and focus on what matters: connecting with others and experiencing the service.

Are children and families welcome?
Yes! We welcome people of all ages and believe that children and youth are valued members of our community. We have religious education programs for young kids to explore values, build relationships, ask questions, and develop a sense of compassion and belonging. We are also currently working on programs for preteens, teens, and young adults. Families are an important part of our congregational life, and we strive to create an environment where everyone can grow together.

What if I am new and don’t know what to expect?
You are in good company! Many of our members come from different backgrounds. You do not need to know who we are, what our traditions are, or have all the terminology and answers. We are happy to meet you where you are, answer questions, and help you feel comfortable.

Is Friendship Fellowship involved in social justice?
Yes! We believe that our values extend beyond the four walls. The UU tradition has a history of being involved in the fight for equity and justice. Our social justice committee works in tandem with local organizations to bring awareness to our marginalized communities such as BIPOC and more. We recognize that social justice is not just something to talk about on Sunday mornings, but that action speaks louder than words.

Are there opportunities to get involved?
Yes! We have a variety of committees and ministries that are always needing help. Friendship Fellowship offers these opportunities through worship and service committees, social justice activism, religious education, gatherings, and more. You are welcome to explore at your own pace. Participation is an invitation, not an obligation.

What if I am going through a difficult time?
Life will always bring moments of joy, fear, uncertainty, grief, and change. You do not have to navigate those experiences alone. Friendship Fellowship offers pastoral care and a Caring Committee of people who seek to support one another with compassion, presence, and understanding. If your situation is dire, we do recommend dialing 911 for emergencies or 988, which is a suicide hotline.

How do I become a member?
It begins with connection. We encourage our guests to attend services, participate in activities, meet our members and committee chairs, and discover whether this is a place for you. Our Membership Committee chair is ready and willing to assist you in the process.

Is there a cost to attend?
No. Like many faith communities, we rely on your generosity to continue to be self-sustaining so that we can continue to offer our programs and introduce new ones that will benefit everyone, yourself included. Contributions are always appreciated, but your presence is welcome regardless. If you have any further questions, please seek out our Membership Chair.

Are your services available online?
Yes, we have a weekly link on Zoom. This option is always available.

Is your building wheelchair accessible?
Yes, our main Fellowship Hall is wheelchair accessible.